The tales of two pernicious pugs and their doormat.

Monday, February 11, 2008

It's Over

Keep me and the BF in your thoughts and prayers. It's a tough time right now.

14 comments:

PinkPiddyPaws said...

Okay... I will.. I'm not sure what's up.. but I will send you both warm, happy, fuzzy thoughts!!

xoxoxoxo

Pug & I said...

We broke up. It was mutual. But we're still in love and it's so hard.

Anonymous said...

Nosotros nos unimos en oracion contigo. Confia en Dios y el sanara tu herida y la de BF. Deja en manos del Senor esta decision, el la va a utilizar de la mejor manera.

Mom

Jessie said...

Oh, honey! I'm so sorry. I know how much you loved him. I just. *hugs* Nothing can be said to make it better. Just hug your puggies tight.

Tam said...

I'm so sorry...{{{hugs}}}

Pug & I said...

Thanks - I really appreciate your support. And yes, I did love him - I still love him so so very much. But I love him enough to realize that we're too different to be happy together in the long run. But it still hurts so much.

Jessie said...

Growing up and being mature is the pits, isn't it? Just give the kids extra love and attention. Not the same kind of love you need, but humans need that attachment, so use it when you're feeling extra bad, yeah?

*gigantic hugs*

*gives giant cookie in the shape of a dog bone*

Pug & I said...

Thanks Jessie,

Yeah, growing up sucks. I can't even count the amount of times I've felt like going back - I have to remind myself over and over and over the exact reasons why it ended. And we still want to be friends, and we still want to hang out together, and while that's great, it's so much harder for me because I get to see him around. Argh. Love sucks today.

PinkPiddyPaws said...

Awww... babe.. I'm so sorry!

Jessie said...

Maybe y'all need a break for awhile? Even from being friends? Just long enough to get back sorted right, mentally. Because it has be confusing at times for your body to comprehend what the brain is aware of.

Pug & I said...

Jessie,
You know, as logical as that sounds, I really don't want to have a break from anything right now. I mean, we both graduate in May and after that, he's more likely than not going to disappear. And I very much doubt I'll ever see him again. So although it hurts, I want to take advantage of the time I have left. It probably is a bit stupid of me to think this way, but right now, I'd rather feel pain when I'm with him, but still have his awesome company, than be apart and possibly never see him again. Yeah. I'm being way too dramatic, aren't I? Blah. I'm feeling way too dramatic these days.

Jessie said...

I think I'm more worried about your mental health. There's no reason to put yourself through extra pain, you know? You'll have plenty when learning to go from an 'us' to a 'me.' *hugs* In other words, don't go borrowing trouble.

Jane said...
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Anonymous said...

Don't give up and who knows what the future may hold